What if the struggle you're going through isn't about you?

What if the struggle or trial that you are going through isn't about you? What if, what if it's actually about that unsaved person watching how you react to it? What if it's about Jesus shining through you? This is all about Jesus, ALL. 

Philippians 2:13-15 For it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure. Do all things without murmurings and disputings: That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world